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                                                                                                                       by: Vishal Chandne

Life is fast. So we must have to run with it. This is what I have always heard. In fact, today I decided to write about life. But not all lives are the same. So I am writing this to express my opinions based on my own experiences while living this life. Maybe these are just thoughts that are goofing around in my mind.



 I've decided to write this because I never had a friend who would listen so spontaneously. Even though I am very vocal, only people (there is just one) close to me know how introverted I am. please don't pretend you're enjoying this article. If you're not finding it interesting, just stop reading from this point only. I ain't going to write anything negative Or even some inspirational talk. If that's what you feel while reading, consider it a mere coincidence. 


As you grow older, your responsibilities increase. With increased responsibilities you have to behave wisely, so what you wanted to do in life is left behind. I acted so wisely that I could not make friends. Just to clear you, I know a lot of people. A friend is someone with whom I can share everything, it can be sorrow or happiness. People changed over time. I may not have understood but unknowingly I may have changed too. I didn't pay attention to what was left behind as I wanted to run with life. But I didn't have time to think about it as I'm the only child of my parents. I'm used to these responsibilities. Because of this I have learned some things in life. Which I'm gonna share. If you see negativity in it then It's not my fault. 

I am very active on Instagram. Obviously, there is no more reliable platform than social media to open up for an introvert. Some people praise me As I write poetries there. They think I do it to get praises and appreciation . People are too smart to make assumptions. There are two reasons for that. First, it is free and second there is no other reason to make an assumption. I've made a few so called friends here. Who has nothing to do with my existence. Actually, expecting them to talk to me is very wrong. So I failed in making friends on social media too. As you grow older, your relatives will take care of you. Most likely they don't worry. They just wanted to give you free advice. In the end, their advice ends up saying 'get married'. 

I don't even know where my underwear is today and they think I'm gonna take such a big responsibility. Marriage means there will be a baby next . In fact, I don't want to be in bondage. Imagine someday you will know that you forgot to bring the baby from school and he / she will be waiting at school for an hour and a half. Ohh that's really bad right? I don't want to compromise on any of my hobbies while spending his school fees. It’s not that I want to run away from responsibility. But I don't want to see that I can't take care of my wife or babies. Some people will find this negative. But that's just my opinion. It is not my intention that anyone should agree to this, not get married or run away from the responsibility of having a baby. 


In fact, There is so much to do in the rush of life. And when all is said and done, after all I understood that true happiness is to be steady in life without running away. Life is running, so why should I have to run? Remember that Kitkat ad? "Take a break from life, who knows what you'll get to see next ." So take a moment, stop running in life. Embrace the good thing out of you. Make good friends with whom you can share things. If you make good friends then trust me you don't have to be a writer at all.




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Hey, we are Abhijeet, a student, pursuing bachelors in pharmacy and Vishal, a writer. Love to do lot of things.. one of them is Blogging.!!

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  1. Vishu Jadhav💜16 October 2020 at 11:55

    The way all those things are illustrated is awesome 💜 and it's relatable too...

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